Appropriate Actions Undertaken Respectfully

If there are no stock solutions to problems, and onein our own life) would make some sense.So where
chooses to evaluate theirdoes this leave us, when trying to maximise our
life through reflecting on experiences in order to findlearning, and seek
the learningto work and live beyond, balanced, or synthesised
contained within, rather than adopting a system ofwith regards to polarities?There is another layer to the
beliefs devised by others, thenetymology of the words to be explored, back to
just how can one know that the way they are actingthe Indo-European roots of the words.
is 'ok' in the biggerEthics is traced back to the Greek word ethos,
picture.For several years now I have struggled tomeaning "character".
accept concepts of ethicsIt is further traced back to the Indo-European root
and morality. The problem has arisen while seeking tos(w)e-.
find ways beyondThere are some curious and interesting words
duality, and think outside of polarities. It has thereforestemming from this, following on
become very difficultfrom the definition:
to just label things with moral tags of good or evil,Pronoun of the third person and reflexive (referring
rightor wrong.For me, the concepts of morals andback to the subject of
ethics have become almost dirty words. Ithe sentence); further appearing in various forms
suppose it is the way many people claim to bereferring to the social group
morally or ethically superior, oras an entity, "(we our-)selves."
have figured the "correct way" that we should all actIt is outside the scope of this essay to explore that
and live.It has become fairly normal for me to act morefully, however it is
intuitively. If something feelsworth noting the concept of "the social group as an
right, and I'm fairly certain I'm coming from a centredentity" and
and balanced placethe esoteric concept of an egregore or group
within myself, then it is okay for me to act or bemind.What catches my attention is some of the
involved in an experience.derivatives: self, gossip, suicide,
Initially this was a struggle. It took time to get a sensesecret, sober, sullen, ethic, and idiot. It is of particular
of feelings andnote that self
emotions, and then to accept it was okay to act on ais of a similar root, as it is really an ethic or morality of
feeling without havingSelf conduct that
reverted to analysing it against a predefined set ofmakes sense to me. As a group or society thing, it still
standards (my own, myfeels best to me if it
cultures, or those of another belief system).On ais a group of willing Selves, who choose to be
deeply esoteric level, it can said that we can never acttogether, free of obligation,
wrong.conducting their affairs in a way that recognises their
As we draw to ourselves situations and people withown Self as sacred.The word moral is traced back to
whom we have experiencesthe Latin word moralis, from mos,
with, we are also drawn to others to fulfil their learningor mor-, meaning "custom". This in itself is traced back
needs. Jung pointedto the Indo-European root me-1meaning "Expressing
out that "the psychological rule says that when ancertain qualities of mind.". If we consider
inner situation isthat the mind in recent years has become exclusively
not made conscious, it happens outside, as fate. Thatconsidered the intellect,
is to say, when thethen it is easy to see the parallels in the polarities
individual remains undivided and does not becomeexistent within the
conscious of his innerintellect, and the polarisation of morals, being
contradictions, the world must perforce act out theconsidered rights and wrongs.
conflict and be torn intoMorals it seems to me are a construct of
opposite halves."intellectualising life, rather than
This makes thing somewhat difficult from a moralliving it.Recently, when trying to explain to someone
standpoint. However, if weabout my belief that life isn't
are acting consciously, we can play a far more activeas black and white as many people think, and magic
and aware role in thesespecifically is something
situations, and we will learn from all our interactions,beyond (or seeking to go beyond) polarities, and
the good and the bad,transcend the lower disruptive
positive and negative.Someone acting from a blackand conflicting interplay we experience in the physical,
magic perspective may be seeking out powerit occurred to me that
over others, however they are locked within a polarity,there are two concepts I can and do work with. I feel
where they will becomfortable with the word appropriatewhen
acting out fate to the individuals who areconsidering if it is right or wrong to do something. I also
unconsciously drawn into thisfeel
dance or interplay. All involved become actors, orcomfortable if the action I take is done with respect
perhaps if totally unaware offor both myself and
the forces at play they are more aptly mannequins,all other beings concerned.The etymology of
controlled by unconsciousappropriate traces back to the Latin appropriare
energies and currents. So to judge a situation as blackmeaning "to make one's own", from the Latin ad- and
evil or white/goodmeans also to be analysing it byproprius,
polarities.So where does that leave us?The Americanmeaning "own". This gives a sense of ownership to
Heritage Dictionary of the English Language, Fourthan action,
Editionthat it was undertaken purposefully and consciously, in
gives three definitions for the word ethics as:the understanding that I
Ethics (noun)am acting in the way I feel is right for this
1. a. A set of principles of right conduct.b. A theory orsituation.Respect traces back to the Latin word
a system of moral values: "An ethic of service is atrespectus, from re-
warand specere meaning "to look at". This in turn stems
with a craving for gain" (Gregg Easterbrook).2. ethicsfrom the Indo-European root spek- meaning "to
(used with a sing. verb) The study of the generalobserve",
nature of moralswith it's oldest form said to mean "becoming". If we
and of the specific moral choices to be made by aare
person; moral philosophy.3. ethics (used with a sing. orcentred within our Self, we are indeed conscious
pl. verb) The rules or standards governingobservers of both the inner and
the conduct of a person or the members of aouter world. Observing can be done without
profession: medical ethics.judgement. If we combine the
So basically ethics relates to morals, rules, andobservation and becoming aspects, then we could
standards governing "rightsay that acting with respect to
conduct". So what about morals? The definitions givenothers is an observation that each being is becoming
are as follows:Moral (adjective)(or growing, evolving) in
1. Of or concerned with the judgment of theit's own unique way, and that we are mindful of
goodness or badness of humanthis.So here then is an intellectualised outline of acting
action and character: moral scrutiny; a moralon a feeling - as I own
quandary.2. Teaching or exhibiting goodness ormy feelings (they are mine, as I am feeling them), I
correctness of character and behavior:also take ownership of my
a moral lesson.3. Conforming to standards of what isactions, which are undertaken by my Self with
right or just in behavior; virtuous: arespect to others. The outcomes of
moral life.4. Arising from conscience or the sense ofthese actions entail a learning, both for myself, and
right and wrong: a moralalso for whomever I
obligation.5. Having psychological rather than physicalinteract with - should each of us choose to learn from
or tangible effects: a moralthe events and
victory; moral support.6. Based on strong likelihood orexperiences. Outcomes may be positive or negative if
firm conviction, rather than on the actualviewed in a polarised
evidence: a moral certainty.manner, however if free of this judgements then the
Moral (noun)1. The lesson or principle contained in oractions have occurred in the
taught by a fable, a story, or anpresent time (the Now) guided by feelings, and owned
event.2. A concisely expressed precept or generalby me, the actor
truth; a maxim.3. morals Rules or habits of conduct,(outer) and observer (inner), and whatever has
especially of sexual conduct,happened has happened. Because I
with reference to standards of right and wrong: ahave taken ownership of my actions, and acted
person of loose morals; arespectfully, based on how I felt
decline in the public morals.was appropriate at the time, I cannot act 'wrong' (or
To me, there are a lot of loaded words in thosefor that matter 'right') -
definitions; Judgement,I can just act, observe, learn, and grow.So perhaps I
moral lessons, conformity, obligation, habits, anddo have an ethic that I live by at this stage in my life. It
the good old polarities right and wrong. As a noun, acould be summed up as "Appropriate actions
moralityundertaken
based on finding the lesson or principle contained withrespectfully.
an event (ie. experience