| For many of us, the idea of transforming our lives | | | | bad in itself; however, when we stop enjoying the |
| sounds like a fairy tale. It seems like we have been | | | | present because it never matches up to our fantasies, |
| dreaming about that illusive "someday" forever, yet we | | | | we often become disillusioned. It's possible to take daily |
| never actually arrive in "someday land" since we keep | | | | action steps toward our dreams while enjoying life to |
| projecting further into the future. "When I lose weight, I'll | | | | the fullest in the present moment. If we want to play |
| feel good." "When I get married, I'll be happy." "Having | | | | starring roles in our own lives, it is essential to treat |
| children will fulfill me." "When my children get older, I'll | | | | ourselves as well as, if not better, than we might treat |
| have more time." Daydreaming about the future is not | | | | a special guest. |