| At the start there was love and romance, you really | | | | together and get you spending more time together. |
| connected with each other! As time passed you got | | | | O.K, I appreciate that over time the interests that you |
| more used to each other, more settled in you ways, | | | | shared originally might have drifted away, so find new |
| the early romance started to fade and you have | | | | interests. You might like doing things that bores your |
| ended up living a routine. You just do not do anything | | | | partner to tears, make a commitment to each other |
| together anymore, you probably recognise the problem | | | | that you will join your partner at the ball game or a |
| but you have both got stuck in such a deep rut that | | | | romantic movie at least a couple of times a month, |
| you do not know how to break out of it. With a | | | | you never know, much to your horror, you might even |
| marriage gone stale, what do you do, can you give it | | | | enjoy yourselves. |
| the life that it once had? | | | | You can try things that you have never done before, |
| A marriage gone stale suggests that there are real | | | | travel to new places, find a project around the house, |
| problems within the relationship that you have to | | | | take up a cause together, just so long as you find |
| address. If you keep drifting on, neither you or your | | | | something that interests you both and gets you |
| partner will have anything resembling a life or the | | | | spending more time together. |
| fulfilling relationship that you deserve. In a worst case | | | | It will take some time and effort to climb out of your |
| scenario you could drift so far apart that you could | | | | rut. Learning how to communicate again, how to enjoy |
| end up in divorce. | | | | life together again will probably be strange at first but |
| Have you stopped communicating with each other? | | | | look at the rewards. Being in each others company |
| This is how things start to go wrong in the first place. I | | | | should not be a chore, it should be something that you |
| am assuming that neither of you have psychic powers | | | | look forward to and cherish. If you keep doing things |
| so if something is going wrong, how will you be able to | | | | together, if you keep talking about everything, if you |
| identify it and deal with it if neither of you are talking | | | | keep your love alive then your relationship can only go |
| about it? | | | | from strength to strength, if you let things slip you could |
| You have really got to spend more time together! You | | | | lose everything so please do not lose anymore time, |
| need to recapture the magic that you felt when you | | | | get back to enjoying life, together. I hope that you are |
| first started going out together. Go to the movies, go | | | | able to work through your difficulties and start to enjoy |
| for walks, hold hands and look up at the stars, do | | | | a new and more fulfilling relationship together. |
| everything and anything that can bring you closer | | | | |