Gaining Inner Peace

I would like to show you that worry and stress doesthem. Whatever you are feeling, whether it is pain,
affect your life, and by being able to understand howfrustration, exhaustion, anger or disappointment.
to eliminate these areas will allow you to find innerBreathe into your feelings and slowly surround yourself
peace.with the warm, healing light of love. Silently say to your
There are innumerable sources of stress and worry inself "I love and accept myself right now".
life and these areas can not be controlled, howeverAfter acknowledging what areas you are not at
what we can control is our reaction to these areas.peace, gently shift your attention to what peace feels
Unfortunately, we probably spend more time worryinglike. The simplest way is to breathe out tension and
or being stressed out then we should.breathe in peace.
As human beings we need to be able to gain insightStart to relax, take a deep breath, and say to yourself
and have an understanding on how to control theseas you breathe in "breathe in Peace". Remember the
events.last time you felt a deep sense of peace and oneness,
Let me try to explain.let this feeling flow through your body. Now breathe
I will use the term money, as this is one area we canout any fear, confusion or whatever is troubling you.
all respond to.Once you feel relaxed affirm "I choose to live with
Money is a tool of life, it is a means to an end, withoutinner peace".
this tool you can still be happy, this is all part of yourYour conscious choice opens up new possibilities giving
inner state and is free and no money in the world canyou a happy and peaceful life. As you draw upon the
buy it.infinite source of inner peace new insight will come to
Worry is not merely a habit that is negative, unpleasantyou, perhaps now, perhaps later, but know that with
and does not change. It will not bring you those things inthese simple steps you have already begun a
life you really need or desire.powerful process of renewal.
Money does not always bring happiness, money isYou need to start acceptance yourself.
neither good or bad it is what you do with it thatMany of us are not at peace because at some deep
creates its value.level we do not accept who we are. This could be to
We worry about success and failure yet we cannotdo with the way we are always trying to fit into
really define the concept.someone else's expectations. By doing this, we are
Ask yourselves these questions.going against the grain defying our own inner peace.
Is a poor person who is happy and has a wonderful,In the natural world everything is and does have a
loving relationship a failure?value, everything has a place only human beings suffer
Is a rich person who has a terrible relationship and nofrom low self-esteem. For example, take a rose, a
love in life a success?daisy, a lark, a squirrel each manifests its potential
Our culture defines success and failure for us, and thedifferently, yet beautifully. Each form has its own
definitions have been deficient.expression; each flower has its own fragrance and
So what is the point of worrying about success?each bird has its own song.
You possibly already worry too much about whatDo you feel inferior because you do not fit a
others think, what their opinions are, what theirstereotype?
judgement is and why they criticize you.Greater peace comes when you embrace you own
Their opinions are based on the same cultural valvesspecial uniqueness.
as those measuring money and defining success.Ask yourself these questions?
Therefore, the truth is we often worry about nothing.What makes you different from others?
The ironic thing is that when we observe from a moreWhat is your special contribution to your life here?
detached perspective, this form of stress becomes anWhat is your special gift?
illusion. It is not real; you create it yourself and deepDo you express yourself?
down you know this.Are you happy taking a quit walk by yourself or joining
The path to inner peace usually begins with a stronga bustling crowd?
need to change things in your life.Are you a practical person?
This need can be frustrating because most of the timeAre you proud of your home?
you are unsure how to achieve this change. You canAre you musical or a good cook?
transform your life but first you need to transformPersonal balance can bring inner peace into your life
yourself. This cannot be accomplished by merelyand you will have a talent that makes you unique.
reading or thinking about inner peace.Each day you meet your physical needs. This is
First, you need to identify the areas of your live whereachieved by eating, and sleeping at regular intervals. If
you feel you have no inner peace. This can be in youryou neglect your body, it becomes unbalanced and
health, your career, your relationship, your family, yourbreaks down. You can place balance by regular
finances and most importantly yourself.meditation. There is a large chapter on meditation in
You need to respond compassionately. If these areasmy book.
have brought you pain, bring compassion in forAnother way is by quite walks, reading, listening or
yourself, this is part of the healing process. This meansplaying music or working in the garden, all these help to
you need to accept your feelings, even negative ones,nourish your body. Inner peace takes you away from
acknowledging how you feel right now. By denyingthe noisy busy world, returning you to the centre of
your feelings only divides you from yourself. Emotionpeace.
and honesty brings greater insight.Remember you are who you are. Make the best of it,
You need to focus on your feelings. So many of usenvy no one for what they have. You should be true
get so busy, that we loss touch with our true feelings.to yourself. One does not reach inner peace in one
You are allowing your heart and mind to go off inleap, so as long as you sincerely resist your lower
different directions this causes a build up ofimpulses you will reach your inner peace, and you will
tremendous internal stress and worry that underminesbe able to achieve whatever you want in life.
your inner peace.You were born with inner peace but as you grow you
Take a moment to ask yourself "when am I not atloose touch somewhere along the way. You can get it
peace" now focus on that area.back once you decide to heal yourself inside and
Whatever situations or feelings arise, acknowledgechange how you perceive life.