| I have found after doing readings for people for the | | | | impression made on you after you are done with the |
| last twenty years, the one thing that always comes up | | | | activity. It is in "doing" the activity where you are going |
| in the readings from my spirit guides to relay to the | | | | to be relaxed and your mind is going to be free so that |
| person having the reading is: you already have the | | | | loving thoughts can come through and direct you in the |
| answer. I have no "special gift" and I do not proclaim to | | | | direction you want to go. Often times we will do an |
| be 98% accurate. I am not God. God is inside of me | | | | activity and it will relax us but we don't feel that we |
| and inside everyone else too. And so that leads me | | | | got an answer to our question(s). The key to all this is |
| back to you already have the answer inside of you. | | | | not to be resistant to letting go and relaxing and let or |
| Where the problem comes in is how to be able to | | | | allow love to come in, in any form, for you to have the |
| hear the answer. Is that answer coming from God or | | | | answer in the way that you would understand. |
| is that what God is saying to me and so I really don't | | | | So the first step in loving yourself is to make a list of all |
| know and this is what leads people to go for a reading, | | | | the things you enjoy doing that relaxes you totally. |
| no matter what the issue is. | | | | Now please understand that you may have to do the |
| Now through the years I have met people who are | | | | activity several or more times to get in a relaxed state |
| more in tuned than others, but it doesn't make anyone | | | | to hear your inner voice. Do not give up and keep |
| any better than or worse than anyone else when | | | | taking time out of your schedule to do what is relaxing |
| trying to find the answers within yourself. And often | | | | for you. The key here is to: "keep doing it". |
| times the people who are in tuned do not even know | | | | When you find an activity that is truly relaxing for you |
| it. We live ours lives projecting outward and we really | | | | then you want to keep doing that. The second step is |
| have no clue of how to go within and develop a sense | | | | once you are relaxed then start being aware of your |
| of spirit for ourselves. People may find they are | | | | thoughts and I guarantee you they are going to be |
| committed to trying to hear the voice within and | | | | more filled with loving thoughts versus busy thoughts |
| meditate and keep meditating and when they arrive at | | | | or negative thoughts. Just keep doing it! The resistance |
| the point of hearing the voice within it may be for a | | | | will come up but you will learn that as long as you |
| minute and it continues to be a minute or a short time. | | | | keep doing it, it will get better and better for you. And |
| They can not seem to get to that point or if they do to | | | | soon you will be having loving thoughts and from the |
| get past that point or past abstract colors, figures or | | | | loving thoughts, during that time of loving yourself you |
| scenes, any number of things come in to distort or | | | | will begin to receive answers and directions for your |
| distract them and the whole thing turns into frustration | | | | life. It is at this point where beginning a meditation |
| for them. | | | | regiment can and will be a much easier task because |
| At this point they may seek out a psychic to receive | | | | you now know what it feels like to be relaxed. The |
| the answers to their questions. I believe that everyone | | | | next step after that is to begin to open your mind while |
| has the ability to meditate which will help them to | | | | in a quiet state to receive love messages more |
| receive the answers they are looking for in their life. | | | | directly. |
| The reason for all of us not being able to receive | | | | In learning how to love yourself it is not only important |
| answers is because of resistance. You know the old | | | | to receive your own answers but it also helps with |
| saying: "be careful for what you wish for it may come | | | | anything in your life that is difficult for you, but the fact |
| true" really fits in this situation. We are so use to going | | | | is you have to do the work which is a part of life. A |
| outward for everything. And even when we know the | | | | good example of that is working a job you don't like. I |
| answers require going within and we know the steps | | | | have through the years worked jobs I did not |
| to take to go within we still don't. Now that is what I call | | | | necessarily care for and something that helped me |
| simply being human. | | | | with that was music. The first thing I would do after |
| The main thread my spirit guides always focus on at | | | | work is blast my music and if I felt like it I would dance |
| some point in a person's reading is "loving yourself" and | | | | or sing along for the first hour or so until I felt relaxed |
| the steps to take to love yourself. For some it may | | | | enough to enjoy the evening, as opposed to |
| seem easy and for others they may not be sure if | | | | complaining all night long about the job and then |
| their activities are loving themselves. Often times I find | | | | dreading going back to work the next day to do it all |
| that if any kind of sports or shopping is on a person's | | | | over again. Or I'd have dinner with a friend after work |
| list for loving themselves, my spirit guides always ask | | | | or go to a movie. Anything to do something I enjoyed |
| the question: Why? My spirit guides feel that shopping | | | | and NOT dwell on the negatives in my job. It worked |
| or sports is a distraction and can lead to guilt in | | | | and I was sent a job after that one that I absolutely |
| whatever area that person wants to go in. They (spirit | | | | loved. So with some patience, training and discipline you |
| guides) define loving yourself as doing anything that | | | | can lead yourself to a lot more happiness and love in |
| relaxes you with no guilt or any kind of negative | | | | your own life! |