| So many times when we feel that our life is not going | | | | time. Over time your internal view becomes the |
| the way we need to, or when we feel that everything | | | | greatest obstacle to overcome -' not the things you |
| that is hurting us or holding us back is in our immediate | | | | thought were the issue in your last location. |
| environment, we think that leaving this environment will | | | | When you are thinking of moving, map out the |
| break the deadlock. But will it? You need to ask | | | | environment you need to position yourself in so that |
| yourself - are you relocating or running away? | | | | you are actually relocating and not running away. Here |
| Relocating is making an educated decision to change | | | | are a few tips: |
| environments to improve your position, whatever level | | | | 1. Make a decision that the environment you are |
| that position may be. | | | | choosing to move away from no longer holds regrets |
| Running away is taking flight because you feel you | | | | for you. Understand that you may feel sad or perhaps |
| have no other sustainable option - when you feel that | | | | upset at times with what has happened with some |
| you cannot cope or make the changes in your life | | | | situations in your life, but that essentially that you feel |
| without a change you feel you are controlling. | | | | that moving on gives you more time to actually focus |
| The significant concern I have about running away is | | | | on your future, rather than focusing on your past and |
| that when you run, you still take with you the very thing | | | | what has made you regret. |
| that you try to run away from - YOU. | | | | 2. Understand that this move will not miraculously |
| When you feel the need to take flight from work, from | | | | improve what you are seeking to find, achieve or be, |
| your family, from your home or from anything - ask | | | | but rather add into the mix an environment that should |
| yourself this; how will this change of location enhance | | | | be more supportive to, and positive for, what you are |
| my life and capacity to move forward? You see, | | | | seeking. |
| sometimes staying still and working through a situation | | | | 3. Know that with this relocation you have all the |
| is actually the best way to move forward. | | | | internal resources to become what you will be - no |
| Think of relocation like this: why move to the beach if | | | | matter where you relocate to. |
| you don't like the water? Or worse - why move to the | | | | When you intrinsically know why you feel compelled to |
| beach if you are scared of it and everyday you | | | | relocate, what you are seeking in this action, and what |
| looked at the beach and wished you knew how not | | | | it is you are prepared to leave behind to grow and |
| only to swim but how to swim without fear? | | | | develop, then your relocation is no longer a running |
| When you relocate out of fear and frustration you will | | | | away but rather a running toward your potential and |
| take your internal view with you - all the time, every | | | | future. |