How Can We Deal With Hurts?

It is conceivable that we can attain such a degree ofand be glad, because great is your reward in heaven,
spirituality that no one can hurt us by anything theyfor in the same way they persecuted the prophets
say. That possibly seems a long way off for most ofwho were before you. (Matthew 5:11 - 12, NIV) This is
us. But it is obvious that, unless we start movingan important scripture to remember when you are
towards such a position, we can never attain it. Theunder attack, if it is specifically because of your
Need For Perseverance This is still worth saying,allegiance to Jesus Christ - whether the attack be
because it underlines the fact that we do need to startfrom non-Christians or, as unfortunately sometimes
moving - and to keep moving. So: For this very reason,happens, from fellow Christians. In such circumstances:
make every effort to add to ... knowledge, self-control;blessed are you, for you are suffering as Jesus
and to self-control, perseverance... (2 Peter 1:5, NIV) )suffered, for he also was a great prophet. Thank God
But the perseverance here is not to persevere in beingfor the privilege of being to experience what Jesus
hurt, nor even to persevere in putting up with beinghad to undergo so many times. Every time he stood
hurt. It is to persevere in learning how to dealup to speak, for example, there were Pharisees,
effectively with the hurt, how to avoid the hurt, evenscribes, priests, hanging on his every word - not
when it is inflicted on us. There are two principle waysbecause of his wisdom, but so that they could attack
within a traditional development of Christian spirituality:him, insult him, discredit him. Can you turn your suffering
1.to lay it off on the Lord; or 2.to use it to identify withat the hands of others into great joy because of the
the suffering of Jesus, which is an opportunityprivilege afforded you, to suffer as Jesus suffered? In
presented to us by such events. Laying It Off To lay itthis way, the hurts are not so much laid off as
off on the Lord means to take the hurt and, in someconverted into great graces by the way we receive
way, shift it onto the willing shoulders of Jesus. We canthem. If we can grow into this, no-one can every harm
ask to be relieved of the hurt. This is essentially aus, because every harm, intended or otherwise,
prayer for healing, specifically for inner healing, bybecome a great source of blessing! The breastplate of
saying "Lord, I ask you to take this hurt from me", orrighteousness covers our entire body and we stand
"Lord, I give this to you" or by using some similarunassailed by the enemy. Then we really know the
phrase. If hurts are being inflicted upon us, there aremeaning of Paul's words: And we know that in all
many scripture to use in calling upon the Lord for help,things God works for the good of those who love him,
to be delivered from the hurts. e.g. The Lord is awho have been called according to his purpose.
refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of(Romans 8:28, NIV ) This is not an easy method. Its
trouble. Those who know your name will trust in you,secrets will not be acquired in a day - nor in a year! It is
for you, Lord, have never forsaken those who seeknot for the spiritually squeamish. Our armour is
you. (Psalms 9: 9, 10, NIV ) Such passages are ofdestroyed when we begin to tell others about what
tremendous power to those of faith. Identify With Thewe have suffered - even more, if we tell them about
Sufferings Of Jesus The second approach is initially tohow we have dealt with it. It is of the essence that our
accept the hurt and to deal with it using a quitesuffering is known to us and to God alone - and he is
different method. Do you remember the ninththe only other one who needs to know, who can
beatitude? Oh, yes, there is a ninth (although manyknow. But our growth in union with God will surely be
people only refer only to eight) for "Blessed are youaccelerated. The great secret is to find joy in suffering
when people insult you, persecute you and falsely saybecause it so aligns us with Jesus.
all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice