| "To be or not to be, that is the | | | | say, that you're something |
| question..."There's an interesting thing in | | | | |
| writing. They say | | | | good, you're often demonstrating the |
| | | | opposite."I'm really smart. I went to an Ivy |
| it's much better to show ideas than it is to | | | | League |
| tell | | | | |
| | | | school.""I drive a really nice car.""I'm |
| them.That is, don't write "It was a scary | | | | busy on Monday and Tuesday with important |
| dark night." | | | | |
| | | | stuff, let's get together on Wednesday for |
| Write, "Clouds covered the last vestiges of | | | | two |
| the | | | | |
| | | | hours.""I am seeing a lot of other women |
| waning moon, and a chill frost rose through | | | | right now.""All girls want me.""I make $X / |
| the | | | | year.""I'm a cool guy.""I'm really good at |
| | | | sex.""I'm really deep.""I look really |
| air. A heavy fog set on the ground obscured | | | | sexy."These are all TERRIBLE verbalizations. |
| his | | | | But |
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| feet, and the only sight to be seen were the | | | | they're not bad qualities to demonstrate.Let |
| | | | her see that you're busy and interesting, |
| wisps of his breath rising in front of the | | | | |
| | | | intelligent, deep. Act like a good lover and |
| blackened landscape."The first example is a | | | | a |
| (written) verbalization | | | | |
| | | | desirable man. The kind of people that say |
| that it's dark and scary. But you don't get | | | | "All |
| a | | | | |
| | | | girls want me" in a serious tone come across |
| dark and scary vibe from it.The second never | | | | |
| verbalizes it's dark and scary. | | | | insecure.But here's the crazy thing. You can |
| | | | jokingly |
| Instead, it demonstrates simply by being | | | | |
| dark and | | | | sprinkle in little bad things about that |
| | | | aren't |
| scary.This is a key part of your | | | | |
| interactions with | | | | true."I'm shy." "Girls don't really like |
| | | | me."If comments like that are obviously |
| women. You want to demonstrate good things | | | | untrue, and |
| about | | | | |
| | | | said with a slight smile, she'll think |
| yourself all the time. You can demonstrate | | | | you're |
| good | | | | |
| | | | kidding around. Verbalizing Low value.They |
| things about yourself through things like | | | | must be obviously untrue. If you actually |
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| Storytelling, displaying humor, displaying | | | | are shy, doesn't verbalize that you're shy. |
| | | | Just |
| intelligence. Being seen with another woman. | | | | |
| | | | don't bring it up.You can also say comments |
| Having one woman over to your place and she | | | | that seem very |
| | | | |
| thinks she smells perfume, but isn't quite | | | | dependent on her."Baby, you're like the moon |
| sure. | | | | and the stars and the |
| | | | |
| Being busy and having a life. One girl | | | | sun for me. Without you, there'd be no |
| notices | | | | me."This is something you can verbalize if |
| | | | you're a |
| other girls calling you, sees you with other | | | | |
| | | | cool, busy guy with a life. If you do that, |
| girls who are "just friends". Things like | | | | |
| this | | | | she'll feel good. On the other hand, if you |
| | | | |
| demonstrate good things about you, that | | | | actually do demonstrate you're dependent on |
| you're a | | | | her, |
| | | | |
| strong capable guy.On the other hand, it's | | | | you want to stay away from this.It's the |
| universally bad to | | | | difference between what you say and what |
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| demonstrate you're clumsy, displaying a lack | | | | you mean. What you're telling and |
| of | | | | showing.Don't say, "I'm a cool guy that's a |
| | | | good lover."Demonstrate it.Sebastian Drake |
| intelligence and/or social intelligence, | | | | has been writing in the fields of Seduction, |
| being | | | | Diplomacy, and Leadership for the past five |
| | | | years. In the past two years, he has won |
| cowardly, etc. Showing that you are | | | | praise and accolodates for his oustanding and |
| extremely | | | | effective coaching on live programs, |
| | | | workshops, and seminars. He is a cofounder of |
| timid, seeing no one else wants you and that | | | | theApproach: The Science of Social Chemistry |
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